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What can brain cancer really be like?

On 26 October 2023, less than a month ago, I was playing soccer in the same way I do each week, in an over 60s competitive kickaround with the lads. My right leg felt strange, like a numbness, which had started a couple of days earlier.

How did I go from this relative health to full-on brain cancer treatment in a few weeks?

I write this not as a medical record or an analysis of brain cancer. There are better places for such research. It’s more about how quickly events can change, none of us knows what might happen and everyone will be different.

Thursday, 26 October

Advised by local GP to go immediately to North Shore Hospital by ambulance to check leg numbness. Did not take any overnight clothes, expected to be out in a couple of hours. Scans showed shadows or marks deep in the thalamus where information from the body’s senses is processed. Held overnight before transferring to ward.

Saturday, 28 October

Finally completed full MRI and met with neurosurgeon. Greater detail from MRI showed brain tumour cannot be removed as extremely sensitive part of brain, too dangerous to operate. Only possible action is biopsy to determine type of tumour and small brain samples for analysis. Met with another neurosurgeon who specialises in such surgery and will operate as soon as possible.

Wednesday, 1 November  

Given operation priority, checked into hospital for more MRIs, interviewed by anaesthetist ready for earlier start tomorrow.

Thursday, 2 November

Four-hour operation, passed the first hurdle that a small percentage of patients don’t survive. Stayed overnight in ICU, feeling fine but groggy. Surgeon said operation went well, stay in hospital for a couple of days.

Friday 3 November

Transfer to ward next day. Tried walking but was shocked how unsteady on my feet. Physio said normal after brain surgery so walked around ward to gain confidence. Right leg numbness not improved, tingle in hands. Surgeon visited to review expectations for first week. Taking anti-epilepsy and steroids to control brain swelling each day.

They plan to include me in new global drug trial, the first Australian patient, by the end of November after recovering from surgery. Good candidate as live near hospital and never in a clinical trial before. Treatment will run in parallel with normal techniques. Met with three doctors from Singapore excited to be starting in Australia.

Sunday, 5 November

Went home but slept a lot. Not worried or distressed, quite comfortable. Able to see a few friends over coming days but only for an hour until needing to sleep again. Walk a couple of times a day, fine at night. Surgeon suggested gradual reduction in doses of drugs, especially steroids which they prefer to avoid.

Friday, 10 November

Met with neurosurgeon again who will stay close to my case but pass me more to specialists in oncology, radiation and chemo. Calm and confident advice from professionals, impressive treatment, no false promises. Confirmed as Stage 4 glioma, any theories about Stage 2 or 3 not relevant. Met with main oncologist who will handle chemo, who prefers me to stay on steroids and anti-seizure tablets until we know reaction.

Sunday, 12 November

Bad day, probably came off steroids too quickly last week. No energy, leg painful. Walking worse and brain confused, struggling with details.

Tuesday, 14 November

Appointment with radiation oncologist who will lead my case now. Clear explanation of what will happen. He expects to start chemo and radiation towards end of November, prefer to wait at least three weeks after operation, then initial six weeks of treatment.

Wednesday, 15 November

Vague, sleepy. Eat little. Tried to attend an event but could not coordinate after getting ready. Based on new MRI, oncologist decided far more brain swelling than expected around thalamus although no tumour growth. He decided to cancel including me in the global trial, suddenly treatment urgent and will commence in a week. Placed onto extra steroids to cover tiredness.

Friday, 17 November

Oncologist rang again late Friday and wants to start treatment immediately, no benefit in waiting and clearly worried about energy levels and my brain swelling. Fitted for Kevlar mask which locks head tightly into position for radiation (actually, x-rays) of tumours in brain. More than one area to target. Doubled the drugs on the weekend to avoid sleepiness. Felt fine with higher doses.

Monday, 20 November

Full radiation treatment starts. Head must be held perfectly still. For the next six weeks, need to attend hospital every day except weekends, plus chemo every day to support the radiation. Monitor steroid use closely as they can erode strength and muscles, so a fine balance.  

Tuesday, 21 November

Good walk, feeling fine, met again with radiation oncologist. Happy with results from first two days of radiotherapy. Impressive knowledge and approach, I’m happy I’m in the best care. Radiation is carefully designed to target exactly the right area of the brain, leaving healthy parts while focussing on the tumour. Oncologist is far happier with the decision to push ahead quickly as scans last week were not good but I have improved from the brain swelling.

So that’s where I am. Better than a week or two ago but taking nothing for granted. Multiple medications every day, blood tests every week, regular meetings on progress.

Thanks for the hundreds of kind messages, apologies for inability to respond, trying to stay well and active, sleeping where needed. Amazing wife and family, great friends, still feeling good and optimistic but nobody knows.

 

Graham Hand is being treated at North Shore Hospital in Sydney but the names of experts involved have been withheld for their privacy.   

Graham announced his initial diagnosis here

 

39 Comments
Kay
November 28, 2023

Graham,
Thank you so much for the update, I have been wondering how you were doing. It is fascinating to hear what happens with regard to treatment. I, like many, feel that you are a good friend. This is only through reading your articles and listening to you on your Podcast. Fingers and toes crossed for you.

Greg V
November 28, 2023

Good luck and best wishes Graham. I wish you a fast and healthy recovery. Warm regards.

Neelam
November 27, 2023

Dear Graham, thanks for sharing your personal journey. Glad you have a great team of specialists looking after you.
All the best in your journey to recovery and full health ??

Denise O'Malley
November 27, 2023

I'm praying for you Graham. Your weekly emails are a gift to those of us without formal finance training. You have taught me so much. Stay positive. John Farnham is now singing again [ after throat cancer ] so they can do wonderful things now with many cancers, maintain your hope.

Sam
November 27, 2023

Than you for the update. Take care!

Chris Rooney
November 27, 2023

Graham I only just started ready Firstlinks and wish I had discovered it many years ago. In fact the first story I read was your story. I wish you and your family all the best. Your strength in documenting your journey will help others and I greatly admire you for that. Stay positive, fight hard and draw on that incredible strength you have. To your family, please take care of yourselves because you maintaining good health is so important during this time - your loved one needs you in good health. Again, all the best. Chris

Louise Marcroft
November 26, 2023

Hello again Graham
How wonderfully positive you are and I'm glad to read that the treatment is going so well. Graham Johnson, Greg Brunner and Chris Groom and others all send their best regards.
Talk soon, I hope
Louise

Jim L
November 26, 2023

Thank you Graham. I’m sure, like others who’ve read, and highly valued your informative and candid writings over many years, I feel like I almost know you. So your current journey touches the very essence of who we are, the experiences we can have and what is most valuable in life. None of us know what our futures hold but if weight of hopes, empathy, optimism, well wishes and undoubtedly prayers have influence, you are in the safest place for better times ahead, and I sincerely wish you that. To share your experience with so many who know you “virtually” as many of us only can, your sharing is profoundly appreciated.

Jane
November 27, 2023

Thankyou also Jim. You have expressed beautifully how many of Grahams devoted readers and listeners feel very fondly for him and his family and friends.

Jim L
November 27, 2023

Thanks Jane.

John
November 26, 2023

Targeted radiation therapy sounds like Proton therapy? Unless traditional radiation therapy has made some leaps forward in recent years? Wishing you a full and speedy recovery from this horrible disease.

Cameron
November 25, 2023

Graham, just finished a year of chemo and radiation for another type of cancer, and I am told now 'in full remission'. It is a time when you're not really sure about things but you have to stay positive , especially for friends and family. All of the medical people I have come across have been great , After the shock wears off get serious about exercise, walking helps a lot with the side effects , and look at your diet ( everything tasted like soap for a couple of months, who knew they put soap in ice cream ! ). I have always liked Winston Churchill : 'never give up' and 'when you're going through hell, keep going '. Wish you great results , and soon too.

Darren
November 25, 2023

Hi Graham,

Thank you for sharing your experience with us all. Wishing you all the best in your eventual recovery from treatment.

Elie Agzarian
November 25, 2023

Hi Graham
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Cancer can be beaten with diet, supplements and positive mind. Please remember that a “no change” report from radiologists is good news. It means that your body has commenced the battle. My heartfelt best wishes Cancer can be beaten no doubt at all

Diane
November 24, 2023

It is so helpful to read about your journey and be buoyed by your positive attitude. Many of us are facing the unexpected illness of a loved one and to be reminded we are not alone is invaluable. Thank you and keep fighting. Huge admiration to you, and you are in my thoughts.

Shiraz
November 24, 2023

Hi Graham
I wish you well and admire your positive attitude.I pray for your early recovery.

Ramani
November 24, 2023

G
Your sharing of the experience gives each of your mates a vicarious feel for the infinitely greater trauma. If the collective good wishes induce your recovery, our empathy would be worth every twitch in our hearts as we walk with you.
Get well.
Ramani

Sonya
November 24, 2023

Hi Graham,
I have been an avid but shy reader of your most excellent advice - this is my first comment. I personally felt it when you shared the news of your cancer. Like a lot of people that read your columns regularly I feel that i know you a little bit, even though you have no idea who I am. Your column is my Sunday morning special with a cup of tea. Rest assured you have many who are rooting for you in this current fight, and wish and/or pray for a good health outcome.

Graham W
November 24, 2023

Hi Graham. I noted in your original article that you knew many folk faced life changing medical issues. Just another credit to you and as a guy who has appreciated your advice over many years i wish you every possible good outcome. I like many self funded retirees believe that my financial position being strong allows me as first priority to look after the health issues of myself and my family. I had very expensive robotic assisted cancer surgery some years ago. Knowing that it was affordable and I could afford the time , not needing to work was great. Knowing that I had people who cared about my recovery was also very supportive. You have not mentioned the financial impact on your journey but it is assumed that you are OK in this area. You have got this Graham, you are a legend

SHEILA MCDOWALL
November 24, 2023

Graham, incredibly inspirational to read about your journey to recovery!! I shall look forward to your regular updates to full health.

Monica
November 24, 2023

Best wishes for your treatment Graham, what a journey. Sending good health vibes to you and your family every step of the way. Amazing you were able to summarise your last few weeks like that.

Henry Hamelink
November 24, 2023

Like Ken Louden I worked with you at the CBA a lifetime ago. I remember you as the CBA guru who walked the corridors developing and thinking about all kinds of things. Hope you are still doing well and as others have said, that you can stay positive during such a challenging time. All the best and God bless

Chris Reeve
November 24, 2023

Graham,
Sending you best wishes for a full eventual recovery from me and all at Aspect Capital in London. It was a pleasure to work with you all those years ago setting up our alliance, and I've enjoyed reading your perspectives on investing here ever since.
Really sorry to hear your news, but you're incredibly brave to share all the details with us so candidly.
Bon Courage,
Chris

OldbutSane
November 24, 2023

Have read Firstlinks and it's predecessor for years and am truly sorry to hear about you cancer, Graham. I hope all the treatment goes better than expected and that you do not have too many side affects from it.

This is also a reminder to others, don't assume you are fit and healthy just because you eat well and exercise. A friend had to have a scan recently (not for a heart issue) and found out he has two nearly blocked coronary arteries. He has none of the usual risk factors and exercises several times a week.

Rod R.
November 24, 2023

Thanks Graham! Keeping you in mind and trust for healing and recovery.

Don Ezra
November 23, 2023

Hi Graham: It’s typically thoughtful and generous of you to share these details — thank you. Best — Don

Cam
November 23, 2023

Thanks for sharing. I hope your journey goes well.
Your generation has been a key part of our cultural change from stiff upper lip, etc to discussing difficult topics.
And as always, your article is engaging to read.

Peter taylor
November 23, 2023

Graham yes you account of your experience and the effort you have gone to is appreciated as what is encountered on such a journey was unknown to me. Hope you are on a winner

Kaye
November 23, 2023

Ditto to Mart - Graham is telling it like it is - so generous to share when he has so much going on. wishing him, his amazing wife and family all the best, K

Frank
November 23, 2023

Hi Graham,
I am a religious sort of person and I believe in Divine intervention. Fight hard and also pray hard.

Brian Moran
November 23, 2023

Hi, Graham. I was in Chiang Mai when the news came through. We won Bronze at the 70+ World Cup. Next year it's in Cardiff and I hope to see you there in the 60+ category, winning gold!. Keep your strength, resilience, toughness and determination - all the qualities you show on the football field - for the fight ahead. best wishes from Attracta and me. Brian

LP
November 23, 2023

Graham - Well wishes to you and your family. Keep up with your good effort and there are so many readers here to support you in the fight. Love your sharing of medical progress. Hope to see your return in the columns soon.

Ross Wilson
November 23, 2023

Ross
Hi Graham. I have enjoyed your writings and wise counsel over many years.
Warmest wishes and prayers as you bravely face the medical treatment and path to recovery.
Your positive attitude is truly inspirational. Keep strong.

Adam
November 23, 2023

Graham all the best with your journey ahead. Thinking of you and your family at this time. Stay positive and keep fighting.

Steve Campbell
November 23, 2023

Hi Graham, I know of you from the early days Cuffelinks and then Firstlinks and we have some common friends from my financial markets days. I wish you all the best in your treatments and a speedy recovery through this difficult ordeal. Your positiveness is remarkable.
Kind regards,
Steve

Ken Louden
November 23, 2023

Hello Graham

Worked with you at CBA and always respected your expertise & efforts.

Since then have really enjoyed your editorial & commentaries that is helping so many people navigate their financial well-being.

I wish you well with your treatments.

Ken L

Kevin
November 23, 2023

I've been a loyal reader of Cuffelinks and Firstlinks, with a special appreciation for your articles, which consistently demonstrate thorough research, professionalism, and financial wisdom. Wishing you all the best, Graham, and keeping you in our thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery.

Peter
November 23, 2023

Hello Graham, have really enjoyed Firstlinks since I discovered it via Morningstar and felt that your contributions were wonderful. Still are. Very sorry to read about your medical challenge. Life like the sharemarket it seems is very unpredictable. Glad to read you're in good hands. Wishing you all the best for the future.

Mart
November 23, 2023

Graham - this is uncanny: your writing on such a personal, difficult subject is exactly like that when you pen investment articles - straightforward, to the point, informative, and with zero waffle ! I seriously don't know how you do it in the circumstances, but I'm so glad you have as it's so helpful to understand this process, so thank you. I, for one, am hugely impressed at your forthright, brave attitude to this setback, bravo. Please please keep fighting hard ! Sending you my very best wishes ... go well mate / Mart

 

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